From a broken heart to another

Hello!!

Self confession time.

Today I realised what is love. Love! Affection !!

So here it is. When you love yourself so much that you don't feel like you need someone else to love you, rather, you have love to offer. When your love is overflowing the tumbler, you have it to offer, to provide.

In short, "Love" means providing someone. 

Are you capable to provide? Are you capable not to hurt? Are you capable to take care of yourself and the other person?

So here is the confession.

Ready to read?

Let's dive in....

So we were there to be for each other. Support, provide, grow. But but but, I ef'd up. 

How?

I saw myself hurting him, crossing the line, following the pattern.

How to end the cycle?

You can, yes you can.

- Start retrospecting the facts that are continuous part of pattern

- Love yourself and moreover heal yourself. From? (It's your task to find out) 

- Try to see what is affecting and what can be made right

You cannot be perfect but situation can be.

So let's start by accepting first and then communication.

Only acceptance won't help. With acceptance comes the actual work, that is working on it.

How you work?

Break your pain-points to milestones.

With every milestone, try to be consistent with your actions.

Never let the pattern to repeat until the cycle breaks and here comes the consistency.

Grow grow grow...Heal heal heal...

You can do it.

Love is a beautiful feeling but, only if you are on the providing end and capable enough to be a 

- Good listener

- Act to it as (go, get, goer)

- Provider

- Power of acceptance

Why not on the receiver end?

Because it can be burdening and we don't want to put that, right?

- Dependency

- Expectancy rate high

What to do if you wish to be on both the end, shifting the paddle as needed.

- Be a soul keeper

- Co-dependency

- Acceptance is the key

- Good communicator and listener.

Don't Forget acceptance is the key, so is the work you put towards it.

Story time coming soon. Till then heal , love , breathe, make mistakes, learn and thrive.

Toodles.















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